Baby Uninterrupted

Babies do silly things and we love them all the more for the same reason. Laughing out aloud at the smallest gestures, gurgling with food/juices, trying out some really hilarious poises, or even making gibberish out of the simplest words, they can do it all and even more. And they can go on and on doing the same stuff for hours at an end  if they have the energy for it.

While the primary criteria for boundless energy can be put as a full tummy and a good night's (or even day's) sleep, comfort comes across as a very close secondary criteria. Comfortable clothing which is in accordance with the weather and most importantly a dry nappy ( given the frequent urination ) are important to keep a baby happy and bubbly. With my bundle of joy, I have never had a dull moment thanks to Pampers which ensures that my tiny one remains equally comfortable whether it be day or night, or even summer or winter. The Magic gel locks up all fluids to ensure that the diaper remains dry on the inside for up to 12 hours while the soft cottony cover allows for proper circulation of air. The result is healthy and rash free skin and uninterrupted happiness.

Coming to the favorite activity of my baby, it has been playing with building blocks of all shapes and sizes. Ever since he started to crawl around and was presented with a set of blocks by his grandparents, he has been besotted with it. Stacking them haphazardly, pulling them down, putting one inside the other and slowly including other objects lying around to create tall vertical mounds that teeter precariously while trying to defy the forces of gravity, the activity can keep him engrossed for the better part of his waking hours. Since there is evidence that suggests that encouraging playing with such blocks and puzzles may actually improve the spatial ability for children, I consciously buy more of such toys. With the diaper taking care of any wetness and discomfort, he does not get distracted unless his tummy starts rumbling or it gets around his napping time. Of course, it translates into stepping carefully around the house which resembles a maze ( or a minefield ) by the time he is done with playing. But I am not complaining as it gives me the opportunity to feed him without much fussing and running around. As a bonus, I use the time to pen down some of my blog posts and catch up on my reading ( and sometimes even napping ).

With Pampers, it is not just the babies, even the mothers are happy around the clock. This post is written for Pampers.

The Messiah in White !!

I am not a religious person or at least I do not believe in rituals. But I bow my head to the superpower that makes things work in precision and allows life to move ahead smoothly in a world that is driven by madness. And this is one such story about my encounter with 'HIM' which made me believe that nothing is impossible if we have the desire to grab it with both hands.

Even during since my school days, I had the dream to be a part of the workforce of a certain Indian IT major. One of the founders of this organization has always been my idol and I always lapped up his interviews in whichever media they appeared. But my entrance rank was not enough to secure a seat in NIT/REC and I had to take admission in a college that did not feature on my wish list. Though it made me sad as I thought it to be a setback which diminished my chances, I never gave up hope. My resolve grew stronger and I started working consciously on my soft skills along with bettering my programming abilities. Plus I practiced a lot of Shakuntala Devi's puzzles which are a regular feature in the written tests of that particular organization.

To get an edge during the interviews, I started attending GD and PI classes. Our faculty, an retired Air force man who always wore white, was a great source of inspiration. He helped us master the finer aspects of a personal interview and gave us generous tips on cracking every kind of interview. Though it was a short program which ended in two months time, I continued my association with the institute and started taking part time classes along with my college studies and programming classes. It provided a boost to my confidence and improved my communication skills as I had to deal with folks who were much older than me and some of them were already working. As I was making a decent money, it also reinforced my belief that not being able to crack the entrance did not mean the end of the world and I could take up teaching which I really enjoyed.

During my final semester, I got a call for campus interview twice from my dream organization but could not attend the same as my seventh semester results were not yet out. Still, I was hopeful of bagging my dream job. Finally, I finished my B Tech and moved to Hyderabad . After a month, I received the third call and made it through the written tests. But I had butterflies in my stomach before the interview and I decided to offer a prayer at a Gurudwara near my hostel. Now, even though I have been raised a Hindu, there was no hesitation in me as I walked the steps of the Gurudwara. I offered a white sheet and some flowers and promised to come back if I cracked the interview.

After offering my prayers, I boarded a bus and reached the interview venue. Though it went quite well and I was able to crack most of the questions, the seasoned HR guys did not let out any hint to whether I had made it or not. And the next week was full of agony as I kept checking my inbox twice every day for any mails from the HR. Finally I gave up hope and did not check my mail for the next couple of days. Then I had a dream early one morning and a guy dressed in white kept asking me to check my mail. I was stunned but it seemed like some kind of divine intervention. I quickly logged into my system but could not see any email from the HR. I was about to dismiss it as a dream but then I thought of checking older mails. And it was there in my mailbox. I had received the offer letter five days back but I had not logged in to check my mails. My joining date was just three days ahead and I would have missed it had it not been for the strange dream and the messiah in white. Till date I remain thankful to 'HIM' and believe that he is there to help me at every step in my life.

This post is written for Housing.com.

My 5 Favorite picks for Holi !!

As they descend in hordes, their appetites whetted by playing under the sun for long and their minds intoxicated by the festivities all around, it is time to lay out a sumptuous spread that becomes the talking point for days to come !!

Check out some of my favorites -

1. Dahi Vada / Dahi Bhalle - Black lentils fritters steeped in a thick/thin yogurt preparation, it can either be on the sweeter side or just savoury. Team it up with an Alu dum or/and yellow peas curry and enjoy it in a tyically Odia style.

2. Thandai Kulfi - A delicious twist on the North Indian drink Thandai, this one packs the delectable flavors into Kulfi cones that simply melt on the tongue. ( For the recipe of Thandaii click here.)

3. Alu Papdi / Dahi Papdi Chaat - Simple yet delicious, this street food is an all time favorite with all age groups !! Though the yogurt version is far more soothing on the taste buds, there is a vegan version too for folks who are averse to lactose .

4. Mawa Gujjiya - Another sweet delicacy from the North, this one provides the right balance to the spicy Holi fare. Crispy on the outside and stuffed with rich mawa and dry fruit, it is not to be missed.

5. Jalebi with Rabdi - Hot jalebis served with chilled Rabdi or even ice cream has turned out to be a hot favorite these days. And with RTS mixes easily available these days, it has become quite easy to whip up this delicacy.

Alu Papdi Chaat

During my initial years of engineering, our college functioned out of a leased premises. Other than a canteen that served bad meals but great tasting bread pakoras, there was nothing to munch on during the short breaks. And then, all of a sudden, this guy selling Papdi chaat perched himself near the gates at a predetermined time every day. Though he dished out a rather frugal version of the Papdi chaat that was sans any 'dahi' or chutney, it tasted awesome and was eagerly gobbled by the college students. His stuff would be sold out in less than an hour's time and he would count the money before treading home. With the chaat priced at just rupees ten per plate, he hardly made fortune. But he never thought of increasing the price or buying a bigger 'thela' so that he could sell more number of plates and make more money.

Then a year later, we shifted to a new campus and forgot all about this guy. But one day when I was looking into the ever burgeoning finances of our household, I was reminded of this poor soul after many years. How did his simplistic approach towards life fare in the face of rising inflation? How many plates did he still sell and is it enough to feed his family ? Is that guy covered by the financial inclusion plans that has been rolled out by the new government and if yes, how will it help him in the long run ? Can we trade our aspirational lifestyles in favor of something more simpler without being branded as social outcasts ?  Such questions kept hounding me for days and yet I was at a loss for any convincing answer.

Since this is a very minimalist recipe that can also be consumed on 'no onion no garlic' days, one can give more bite to it by adding some boiled chickpeas/yellow peas/kala channa, chopped cucumber and tomatoes/raw mangoes. Recipe here -

Preparation Time - 30 mins

For the Papdis

• 2/3 cup maida/ all purpose flour
• 1/3 cup atta/ whole wheat flour
• 1 tsp semolina
• 2-3 tbsp split gram dal ( I forgot to add this)
• 2 pinch ajwain/ carom seeds 
• 1 tbsp oil
• salt to taste
• oil for deep frying

For the chaat -

• 10 papdis
• 1 small potato (boiled, peeled and cubed)
• 1/4 tsp red chili powder
• 1/2 tsp lemon juice
• black salt as per taste
• a pinch of chaat masala
• cilantro for garnishing

Preparation - Take the maida, atta, semolina, oil, carom seeds and salt in a mixing bowl. Mix well and then add water little by little to bring everything together into a smooth dough. Cover with a moist cloth and keep aside for 20 mins.

Knead the dough once again before dividing into 3-4 portions. Roll out each portion on a flat surface. Take a circular cookie cutter or even a sharp edged bottle lid/cap and cut out small circles. Using a fork, punch holes in the small circles to prevent them from puffing up during frying.

Heat sufficient oil in a wok. Add the papdis, a few at a time and fry them on a medium flame. Lower temperature will turn the papdis chewy while high heat will brown them too quickly leaving the insides under cooked. Adjust the flame accordingly. Remove and place them on paper towels to absorb excess oil.

Allow them to cool down completely before storing in airtight containers. Stays good for 8-10 days.

For assembling the Alu Papdi Chaat -

Layer 10 puris/papdis on a plate. Throw the cubes potatoes over them. Sprinkle chili powder, chaat masala, lemon juice, chopped cilantro and black salt. Mix in and consume immediately.

Navratan Korma ( Without Onion and Garlic )

Navratan Korma derives it name from the nine jewels of Mughal emperor Akbar's court. The dish is supposed to consist of an equal number of vegetable simmered in a sweet and mildly spiced creamy gravy. While the regular version of this recipe makes use of an onion, ginger and garlic paste, I have prepared a no onion- no garlic verison that can be consumed on 'vrat' or auspicious day too.

The have used eight vegetables and paneer along with a paste of poppy seeds, almonds and cashews for the recipe. The vegetables have been boiled in milk instead of water to add richness and sweetness to the gravy. But since milk slows down the cooking process, it is best to have the vegetables half cooked by the time milk is added. Read on for the recipe -

Preparation Time - 1 hour

Ingredients -

• 1 cup cauliflower florets
• 1/2 cup carrot (small cubes)
• 1/2 cup capsicum (long strips)
• 1/2 cup beans ( inch long pieces)
• 1/2 cup potatoes ( peeled and cubed)
• 1/2 cup baby corn ( inch long pieces)
• 1/2 cup green peas
• 200 gm paneer/cottage cheese ( long pieces)
• 2 large tomatoes (freshly pureed)
• 1 1/2 cup milk
• 3 cardamom 
• 2 inch long cinnamom stick
• 2 cloves
• 1/2 tsp cumin seeds
• 1 tsp red chili powder
• 1 tsp coriander powder
• 1/2 tsp turmeric
• 1/2 tsp garam masala
• 1 tbsp kasuri methi
• 2 tsp honey
• 1/3 cup raisins and broken cashews (mixed)
• salt to taste
• 3 tsp oil
• 1 tsp ghee

For the paste -

• 2 tsp poppy seeds
• 12 cashews
• 4-6 almonds

Preparation - Soak the poppy seeds, cashews and almonds in a cup of hot water for 1-2 hours. Drain the excess water and peel the almonds before grinding everything into a smooth paste.

Cooking - Heat the ghee and oil in a wok. Add the whole spices followed by the chili, turmeric, coriander and garam masala powders. Roast for 10 seconds before adding the tomato puree. Cook everything till oil separates from the tomato paste.

Then add all the chopped vegetables and stir fry them till half cooked. Alternately cover with a lid for faster cooking.

Add the poppy seeds and nuts paste to the wok along with a little milk. Mix in. Add the rest of the milk, cashews and raisins. Adjust salt and allow the curry to simmer till the vegetables are completely cooked.

Add the paneer cubes, kasuri methi ( rub it lightly between palms before adding ) and honey. Simmer for 2 minutes before removing from the flame.

Garnish with coriander leaves before serving hot. Goes best with all Indian flat breads and mildly spiced rice dishes.

HiFi in Bollywood - Rishi Vohra (Book Review)

Now I have to say that this is 'hatke' (slightly different) book than the types that I usually read. The protagonist Rayhan is a guy who is besotted with Bollywood and dreams to making it big . His father on the other hand is a guy who thinks that a respectable career in finance and a future in America is what his son should be looking at. In purely filmy style, Rayhan lands up in Mumbai without the knowledge of his father. And needless to say the incidents that follow have a very filmy flavor to them. Right upto the climax. Yes, this book is an ode to the Hindi Film Industry and the millions of dreams that it has inspired.

Along with our hero who is a guy with a Finance degree, we have a small time goon who aspires to be the first Catholic villain and a dark skinned girl who wants to become a heroine. It speaks volumes about the lure of celluloid which spares no segment of society.

Throughout the book, the Hindi film industry is refered as 'HiFi' instead of Bollywood which is a welcome relief given the Tollywood, Sandalwood, Ollywood type crappy names that it has spawned. The author has covered a lot of aspects of the film industry like having the importance of having the right contacts, the egos of the big stars that always need assuaging, the fact that actresses have a limited shelf life and the general insecurities that folks from the industry possess. Darker aspects like the casting couch and drug abuse also get a mention. It also gives a detailed insight into the work environment on the sets and the amount of hard work that is put in by everyone who work behind the scenes.

This book is a lighthearted read that should be picked by all Bollywood fans. Or even those who want a quick insight into the ways of this industry.


[And no I would not compare Rishi Vohra to Chetan Bhagat as I never think of comparing the latter to Paulo Coelho and Khaled Hosseini. It is just like people do not compare a Rohit Shetty movie with a Sanjay Leela Bhansali one. Take a chill pill and enjoy the diversity.]

Baby Corn Masala

With baby corn becoming popular in India sometime during the early twentieth century, another popular vegetarian dish captured the imagination of restaurant owners and their patrons alike. The Baby corn masala or Baby corn butter masala became part of the menu and has remained a popular choice ever since. The natural sweetness of the baby corn is accentuated and complimemted by a lightly sweet and rich gravy which has just the right amount of tang in it !!

Read on for the recipe -

Preparation Time - 40-45 mins

Ingredients -

• 1 1/2 cup baby corn ( chopped into centimeter long pieces )
• 1/2 cup capsicum (cut into strips)
• 1 small onion (finely chopped)
• 1 tsp Kashmiri chili powder ( I used the regular one so made it 1/2 tsp)
• 1/2 tsp coriander powder
• 1/5 tsp turmeric
• 1/5 tsp garam masala
• 1 1/2 cup milk
• 1 tbsp Kasuri methi
• 1 1/2 tsp honey 
• 1 tbsp butter
• salt to taste

For the gravy

• 1 medium onion ( chopped into chunks)
• 1 large tomato ( chopped into chunks )
• 5-6 garlic cloves
• 1 inch ginger (roughly chopped)
• 1 1/2 tsp oil
• a pinch of salt

Preparation - Heat a frying pan . Add the oil and thrown in the onions first and fry for 2 mins. Then add tomatoes, ginger and garlic. Fry for 4-5 mins and remove from the flame.

Allow to cool down a bit before making into a smooth paste.

Cooking - Heat the butter in a wok. Add the finely chopped onion and fry till translucent.

Add the chili powder, turmeric, coriander powder and garam masala. Roast for 10 seconds and then add the above paste. Fry for 2-3 mins before adding the baby corn. Sprinkle a little salt and cover with a lid. When the baby corn is half done, add the milk and bring it to a boil. Simmer till the baby corn is almost done.

Add the capsicum strips, kasuri methi and honey at this stage and allow to cook for 3-4 mins. Remove from the flame.

Garnish with a dollop of butter and chopped cilantro and serve hot. Goes best with Indian flat breads or a simple rice dish.

Dahi Kadhi/Kadhi Pakoda

Kadhi Chawal is a very popular North Indian meal. Immensely soothing and low on effort, it qualifies as comfort food on almost every level. Another good thing is that there are quite a many variations possible with it. I usually stick to a simple kadhi base (without any onions and garlic) while I keep changing the addons. Sometimes I go for the usual pakodas and at times tinge them with some greens ( palak/methi) . If I am in the mood for veggies, I fry some okra or eggplant or even tomatoes and add to the kadhi. And at my laziest best, a simply prepare the kadhi and put some store bought boondi (Haldiram's) in it !! Simple yet delicious :) .

This is the regular version of Kadhi Pakoda. Read on for the recipe -

Preparation Time - 30 mins

Ingredients -

For the Kadhi -

• 1 cup dahi
• 2 tsp Fortune besan ( I insist on this brand as it is best I have tried )
• 1/2 tsp grated ginger
• 1-2 finely chopped green chili
• 21/2 cups water
• 1/2 tsp sugar
• a pinch garam masala (optional)
• salt to taste

For the Tempering -

• 2 tsp oil
• 2 dry red chili
• a sprig of curry leaves
• 1/2 tsp mustard seeds
• a pinch of fenugreek seeds
• a pinch of cumin seeds
• 2 pinch asafoetida

For the Pakoda -

• 1/2 cup Fortune besan
• 1 medium sized onion cut into thin long pieces
• 2 tsp chopped coriander leaves
• 1/2 tsp red chili powder
• 1/4 tsp jeera powder
• a pinch of garam masala
• a pinch of amchur
• pinch of baking powder
• water to make a thick paste
• oil for deep frying

Preparation -
For the kadhi - Take the curd in a mixing bowl. Beat it lightly  to break any lumps. Add everything else and mix well.

For the pakoda - Take all the ingredients in a mixing bowl and add water little by little to make a thick batter/paste.

Cooking - Heat sufficient oil in a wok for deep frying. Add spoonfuls of the pakoda mixture and fry till golden brown. Remove and keep aside on paper towels.

Bring the kadhi mixture to boil in a separate wok.

Heat 2 tsp oil in a tadka pan. Add broken/whole red chili, mustard seeds, cumin seeds, fenugreek seeds, asafoetida and curry leaves. When it starts spluttering, add it to the kadhi and boil for 15 mins on low flame. Finally add the pakodas and switch off the flame.

Serve immediately with steamed rice.

Note - The pakodas remain crispy when added at the end but if you want them to soak up some of the kadhi, add them 5 mins before switching off the flame or let it sit for a couple of minutes before serving.

Bedtime is Bonding time with my Baby !!

Babies are cute. At least for folks who have encountered them only in telly advertisements and maybe sometimes in the parks/malls. But for those who have had a chance to see them up, close and personal, it takes almost a miracle (or sometimes a miraculous product) to keep them at their happiest best. And being a mom to a hyperactive three year old, I can vouch for such a product that I have used ever since he was a week old. And I still use it when we are travelling long distance or going over to a friend's place as I am a bit skeptical about my young one using a toilet outside our home.

My baby did not sleep for the first few nights after he was born. He would fall into a fitful sleep only to be awakened by the wetness of the cloth nappy. After 2-3 hours of howling and a few dozen lullabies, he would doze again for roughly the same time before waking up yet again. And then I discovered Pampers and its miraculous effects on my baby thanks to a dear friend. I can never thank her enough as it helpful put some kind of order into the madness that had suddenly gripped our world. With all babies being different, some may argue that diapers may irritate a baby's tender skin or that a little bit of wetness would not hurt a baby. But with Pampers, I have never faced any such problems. The cloth like breathable diapers are infused with Aloe vera and have very soft adjustable waist bands. And I would never take a chance with wetness especially in a place like Bangalore which has a cool climate almost around the year.

Once I started putting my baby in diapers, it was easy to embark on a night time routine to get him to sleep peacefully. Till he turned one year old, I would start this ritual by giving him an oil massage for 20-30 minutes. With his tiny muscles all relaxed, I would give him a quick bath. After drying his skin and hair, I used to rub a gentle baby lotion all over. This would be followed by sprinkling baby powder especially on his bottom and skin folds. Finally I would put on his diaper and a set of loose cotton clothing. By this time, he usually started to yawn and nod/rub his head ( a signal that he is sleepy ). Once he was settled in the bed, he would fall asleep even before I completed the third lullaby. And he would wake up all refreshed and smiling after a good 9-10 hours sleep.

When he entered the second year, I substituted rhymes for the lullabies during his bedtime. And after another six months, the lullabies got replaced by stories which had animals, birds and even people in them. As he completed two years, I introduced him to picture books which had him hooked. With kids having too much energy, it is difficult to get them to concentrate when they are fully active. Hence, with this ritual I get him to relax and learn something new at the same time. No wonder he sleeps blissfully and dreams of the objects that he had come in the stories or books that I told or read to him.

This post is written for Pampers.

5 Things to do before I die !!

Life is all about bigger goals interspersed with smaller moments of joy that add spice to an otherwise mundane existence. Everyone dreams of things like owning a house, buying that swanky car, sending the kids to a big school/university, taking a world tour and yet having a large enough corpus for retirement. Yes, I am no different from such folks and there are the things in my Bucket List (in no particular order though) -

1. Owning an independent house /villa with a small patch of garden. With most apartments offering tightly crunched flats with hardly any sunlight or ventilation, some good old fresh air is what I always crave for. And a nice little patch of soil to plant those fresh herbs and vegetable plants. Imagine the joy of plucking the fresh produce and heading straight to the kitchen to rustle up a colorful and healthy meal. Also, it should be located near to our respective offices so that we have ample time to appreciate and enjoy our home instead of wasting it in commuting

2. A date with those adorable kangaroos and penguins comes next on my list. With Australia offering so much, I want to take a really long vacation and savor every bit of it. The awesome food, the beaches and the vast oceans, the lovely streets to be explored and of course a lot of shopping that goes with it .

3. Like every parent, I too have big dreams for my kid. While I would love to see him playing tennis at the international level, I would do every bit to allow him to make his own career choices. And choosing the right school is the first step. An international school with a curriculum that excels in introducing children to activities and interests beyond studies is what I have in mind. Such schools offer the flexibility for a child to nurture various talents instead of simply cramming up on the written word. Plus I would love to take him on a vacation to Disneyland while he is still young so that he can enjoy the pure fantasy of it.

4. Buying a set of wheels that would make all my friends and relatives go green with envy. Whenever I looked at names like BMW, Audi and Mercedes, I always associated them with success. Whether it is the success factor that gives it that exclusive feel or the other way around with people using the exclusivity card to make themselves seem more successful has always been debatable in my opinion. But this argument notwithstanding, I would still like to own one of these names.

5. Writing my book and having enough funds to publish and promote it. Yes, finding that first break as a writer is tough and one needs to put in the right amount of investment to ensure that it reaches the targeted audience. Of course quality matters most but in this age of self promotion, one needs sufficient funds to open the right channels.

All this is possible with correct financial planning and the right amount of investment. And IDBI Federal provides just the right plans for me to live life to the fullest while staying secure.

This post is written for IDBI Federal Life Insurance.

An Incredible Valentine !!

A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others. -           Frank Morgan 

And unconditional love is the best thing (though not the only thing) that I would want from my Valentine. Yes, that is what the ASUS Zenfone gives me. Many would find it incredible that a phone can actually display what has traditionally been considered as a human quality. But isn't love all about feeling great or even awesome about oneself ?? And more importantly, it lets one be oneself without making one take a guilt trip. Read on to find the reasons why this phone is the perfect Valentine -

1. It makes me feel beautiful. Thanks to the 5 MP camera ( with comes with brightness enhancing lenses which is a first at this price ) that captures me in all my moods on any given occasion, I have all the arsenal required for a little self gratification. No wonder all my girlfriends keep wondering why my pictures turn out better than theirs'. 

2. It keeps me entertained all the time. It answers all my queries, keeps me updated on the latest happenings, plays out my favorite songs and even my favorite videos. The 64 GB (expandable) memory takes care that I do not run out of memory as I carry my personal entertainment channel with me wherever I go. 

3. It is dependable. Unlike boyfriends who have cricket matches / football matches, booze buddies and what not buddies, it provides me unconditional company. All the care that it has ever asked for is a little bit of charging and it is good to go for hours and hours. Also, it does not come with a disapproving mother who is always on the lookout for opportunities to tick me off for getting close to her son.

4. It has that 'flaunt' factor with looks to die for. Don't we all wish for that dishy hunk/gorgeous chick as a trophy boyfriend/girlfriend to make others turn green with envy ?? Well, this phone scores a perfect ten on that criteria. Especially for girls, do check out the lovely red one !!

5. It knows when to shut up without any protests. Yes, we girls have our moods and we just want to play reclusive for sometime. It could be a tiff with someone close or maybe those exam scores that are nothing to write home about or even without any tangible reason. It happens to all of us and we are entitled to those quite moments. Unlike a person, a phone can be set on a silent mode anytime and for as long as one wishes. 

Still looking for more reasons ??

6. It ensures that I get to catch my favorite flicks at my favorite multiplex. That too first day first show. And makes sure that my travel plans are right on schedule with a reserved train/bus/flight ticket booked from the comfort of my sofa.

7. It is cheaper than the combined cost of a Valentine's day dinner, gifts, roses and a card. Yes...that one's a clincher.

This post is written for ASUS Zenfone. To buy it, click here . Meanwhile check out the lovely video !!